Let ALLOW_STRING and ALLOW_INT flags be combined with ALLOW_BOOL so string and
int options can be specified without explicit values. This is useful for
imperative settings that trigger new behavior when specified and can accept
optional string or integer values, but do not require them. (For examples, see
the example_options unit test modified in this commit.)

This change has no effect on behavior, and is basically just a documentation
change at this point. The ALLOW_LIST flag is currently ignored unless
ALLOW_BOOL, ALLOW_INT, or ALLOW_STRING flags are also present, and these flags
are not used yet.

-BEGIN VERIFY SCRIPT-
for f in `git grep -n 'GetArgs(' | grep -v _tests | sed -n 's/.*GetArgs("\([^"]\+\)".*/\1/p' | sort -u`; do
   git grep -l -- "$f" | xargs sed -i "/AddArg(\"$f[=\"]/ s/ArgsManager::ALLOW_ANY/& | ArgsManager::ALLOW_LIST/g"
done
-END VERIFY SCRIPT-

- Remove ALLOW_LIST flag from bitcoin-wallet -wallet and -debug arguments. They
  are list arguments for bitcoind, but single arguments for bitcoin-wallet.

- Add ALLOW_LIST flag to -includeconf arg (missed by scripted diff since it's
  not accessed through GetArgs)

- Add ALLOW_LIST flag to -proxy, -debug, -loglevel, -whitebind, and -whitelist
  args (missed by scripted diff due to line breaks in AddArgs calls)

- Add ALLOW_LIST flag to -zmq args (missed by scripted diff due to programmatic
  GetArgs calls)

This change has no effect on behavior, and is basically just a documentation
change at this point. The ALLOW_LIST flag is currently ignored unless
ALLOW_BOOL, ALLOW_INT, or ALLOW_STRING flags are also present, and these flags
are not used yet.

Previous behavior was inconsistent: if -blockfilterindex or
-blockfilterindex="" arguments were specified they would normally enable all
block filter indexes, but could also trigger "Unknown -blockfilterindex value"
errors if followed by later -blockfilterindex arguments.

It was confusing that the same -blockfilterindex options could sometime trigger
errors and sometimes not depending on option position. It was also confusing
that an empty -blockfilterindex="" setting could enable all indexes even though
indexes are disabled by default.

New behavior is more straightforward:

- -blockfilterindex and -blockfilterindex=1 always enable indexes
- -noblockfilterindex and -blockfilterindex=0 always disable indexes
- -blockfilterindex="" is always an unknown value error

The meaning of these options no longer changes based on option position.

Upcoming commits will make it an error to call GetArg and IsArgSet methods on
list options since these usages are error prone. For example GetArg will return
last command line value but first config value in the list, and IsArgSet will
return true even if the list is empty if the list was negated.

This change is just a refactoring replacing problematic ArgsManager calls with
equivalent calls to avoid changing any behavior. Current behavior could
probably be improved in these cases, but this change should make new problems
less likely to be introduced.

Prevent GetArg() from being called on ALLOW_LIST arguments, and GetArgs() from
being called on non-list arguments.

This checking was previously skipped unless typed INT/BOOL/STRING flags were
present, but now it's always done.

This change has no effect on external behavior. It is just supposed to enforce
internal consistency and prevent bugs caused by using the wrong GetArg method
to retrieve settings.

Disallow calling IsArgSet() function on ALLOW_LIST options. Code that uses
IsArgSet() with list options is confusing and leads to mistakes due to the easy
to overlook case where an argument is negated and IsArgSet() returns true, but
GetArgs() returns an empty list.