this is a followup to #29053 which missed packages mentioned on #28884, and also some gentoo, arch, fedora, debian packages

Depends on #29129

CC: @mkoeppe @kiwifb @orlitzky

Component: build

Author: Dima Pasechnik

Branch: 0f704d0

Reviewer: Matthias Koeppe

Issue created by migration from https://trac.sagemath.org/ticket/29273