How to exclude node_modules but one

Subj,
as example
I create some module in another folder ( /projects/MY_MODULE )
MY_MODULE not compiled, source code
then run npm link
after go to my project and run npm link MY_MODULE
Compile my project and have error two copies React

i`am try

```
{
        test: /\.js$/,
        exclude: [/node_modules/],
        include: [/node_modules\/MY_MODULE/]
      },
```
