Seen in https://github.com/sagemath/sage-prod/files/10659599/numpy-1.21.4.log

The change made as part of #32046, using pip wheel --build-option ... (instead of setup.py bdist_wheel...) seems to have broken the use of said build options when the package is a PEP 517 package (i.e., has pyproject.toml)

Among the packages found by git grep sdh_prefix, only numpy is
affected (the others, python_igraph, jupyter_jsmol, pillow, do not have pyproject.toml).

The build options for numpy are in particular needed for SAGE_FAT_BINARY=yes builds. This would explain the segfaults (again!) in the multi-stage Cygwin build, triggered by plots in doctests - https://github.com/sagemath/sage/runs/4768915607?check_suite_focus=true

(Hence "blocker" for Sage 9.5.)

Also fixes a build problem on alpine-standard (#33083)

CC: @dimpase @kliem @jhpalmieri @culler

Component: packages: standard

Author: Matthias Koeppe

Branch: 455e1fa

Reviewer: Dima Pasechnik

Issue created by migration from https://trac.sagemath.org/ticket/33138