Failures with --enable-system-site-packages on various systems #36536
Description
debian-bookworm https://github.com/mkoeppe/sage/actions/runs/6622955701/job/18026345582#step:10:3976
[sagemath_doc_html-none] [reference] AttributeError: type object 'Axis' has no attribute '_set_ticklabels'
likewise debian-trixie, debian-sid
fedora-33 https://github.com/mkoeppe/sage/actions/runs/6622955701/job/18026347408#step:10:5780
[argon2_cffi_bindings-21.2.0] ModuleNotFoundError: No module named 'setuptools_scm.file_finder_git'
(likewise for many other packages, and for fedora-34)
fedora-37 https://github.com/mkoeppe/sage/actions/runs/6622955701/job/18026348122#step:10:6023
[matplotlib-3.8.0] ModuleNotFoundError: No module named 'pybind11'
opensuse-15.5-gcc_11-python3.11 https://github.com/mkoeppe/sage/actions/runs/6622955701/job/18026350285
[pillow-10.0.1] Usage:
[pillow-10.0.1] /sage/local/var/lib/sage/venv-python3.11/bin/python3 -m pip wheel [options] <requirement specifier> ...
[pillow-10.0.1] /sage/local/var/lib/sage/venv-python3.11/bin/python3 -m pip wheel [options] -r <requirements file> ...
[pillow-10.0.1] /sage/local/var/lib/sage/venv-python3.11/bin/python3 -m pip wheel [options] [-e] <vcs project url> ...
[pillow-10.0.1] /sage/local/var/lib/sage/venv-python3.11/bin/python3 -m pip wheel [options] [-e] <local project path> ...
[pillow-10.0.1] /sage/local/var/lib/sage/venv-python3.11/bin/python3 -m pip wheel [options] <archive url/path> ...
[pillow-10.0.1]
[pillow-10.0.1] no such option: -C
[pillow-10.0.1] Warning: building with "python3 -m pip wheel --wheel-dir=dist --verbose --no-deps --no-index --isolated --ignore-requires-python --find-links=/sage/local/var/lib/sage/venv-python3.11/var/lib/sage/wheels" failed.
[pillow-10.0.1] Retrying with "python3 -m pip wheel --wheel-dir=dist --verbose --no-deps --no-index --isolated --ignore-requires-python --no-build-isolation --no-binary :all:".
[pillow-10.0.1]
(this is now #36540)