🐛 Describe the bug

Upgrading torch from a perfectly fine 2.2.2 to 2.3.0 seems to break it on Windows

C:\stable\ComfyUI>python
Python 3.12.3 (tags/v3.12.3:f6650f9, Apr  9 2024, 14:05:25) [MSC v.1938 64 bit (AMD64)] on win32
Type "help", "copyright", "credits" or "license" for more information.
>>> import torch`
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "<stdin>", line 1, in <module>
  File "C:\Users\xyz\AppData\Roaming\Python\Python312\site-packages\torch\__init__.py", line 141, in <module>
    raise err
OSError: [WinError 126] Das angegebene Modul wurde nicht gefunden. Error loading "C:\Users\xyz\AppData\Roaming\Python\Python312\site-packages\torch\lib\shm.dll" or one of its dependencies.

Versions

Collecting environment information...
PyTorch version: N/A
Is debug build: N/A
CUDA used to build PyTorch: N/A
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Microsoft Windows 10 Enterprise LTSC
GCC version: Could not collect
Clang version: Could not collect
CMake version: Could not collect
Libc version: N/A

Python version: 3.12.3 (tags/v3.12.3:f6650f9, Apr 9 2024, 14:05:25) [MSC v.1938 64 bit (AMD64)] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Windows-10-10.0.19044-SP0
Is CUDA available: N/A
CUDA runtime version: Could not collect
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: N/A
GPU models and configuration: GPU 0: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 4070 SUPER
Nvidia driver version: 551.86
cuDNN version: Could not collect
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: N/A

CPU:
Architecture=9
CurrentClockSpeed=3401
DeviceID=CPU0
Family=107
L2CacheSize=8192
L2CacheSpeed=
Manufacturer=AuthenticAMD
MaxClockSpeed=3401
Name=AMD Ryzen 9 5950X 16-Core Processor
ProcessorType=3
Revision=8450

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] numpy==1.26.4
[pip3] torch==2.3.0
[pip3] torchaudio==2.3.0
[pip3] torchsde==0.2.6
[pip3] torchvision==0.18.0
[conda] Could not collect

cc @ezyang @gchanan @zou3519 @kadeng @msaroufim @seemethere @malfet @osalpekar @atalman @peterjc123 @mszhanyi @skyline75489 @nbcsm @vladimir-aubrecht @iremyux @Blackhex @cristianPanaite