Why

fix the issue when long-press r in cli and makes expo-go stuck in loading view

How

• call destroyReactHost on ReactNativeActivity.onDestroy. we did similar destroy on bridge expo-go as well.
• since the multi-activity expo-go will destory the current activity, the destroyReactHost should destroy ReactHost instance.
• prevent "home" react instance create a packager connection. we should use ReleaseDevSupportManager for "home" in production build.
• remove unused code in VersionedUtils.kt
• also Fix android reload reentrant issue react-native#39

Test Plan

keep pressing r in cli and see if expo-go stuck on loading view

Checklist

• n/a Documentation is up to date to reflect these changes (eg: https://docs.expo.dev and README.md).
• Conforms with the Documentation Writing Style Guide
• This diff will work correctly for npx expo prebuild & EAS Build (eg: updated a module plugin).