Backport of a39f235 from main

Backport of d9cee3f from main

Backport of 8e97698 from main.

…rder_by().

Regression introduced in 5139487
by marking the raw SQL column reference feature for deprecation in
Django 4.0 while lifting the column format validation.

In retrospective the validation should have been kept around and the
user should have been pointed at using RawSQL expressions during the
deprecation period.

The main branch is not affected because the raw SQL column reference
support has been removed in 06eec31
per the 4.0 deprecation life cycle.

Thanks Joel Saunders for the report.