When doing something like :
```
from metaflow import project

....

mymutableflow.add_decorator(
project, deco_kwargs={"name":"abc"})
```

Metaflow breaks with the error :

```
 File ".../metaflow/flowspec.py", line 312, in _process_config_decorators
    deco.pre_mutate(mutable_flow)
  File "mydeco.py", line 67, in pre_mutate
    mutable_flow.add_decorator(
  File ".../metaflow/user_decorators/mutable_flow.py", line 409, in add_decorator
    _add_flow_decorator(
  File ".../metaflow/user_decorators/mutable_flow.py", line 353, in _add_flow_decorator
      d for d in self._flow_cls._flow_decorators if d.name == flow_deco.name
                                                  ^^^^^^
AttributeError: 'str' object has no attribute 'name'
```

This is because we dont handle the _flow_cls._flow_decorators in the
right way (as a dict instead of list)